Human beings are social animals, as Marx said: "The essence of human beings is not an abstraction inherent in a single person, but in its reality, it is the sum total of all social relations." "After entering the university, college students are faced with a new environment, a new group, and they reintegrate various relationships, and the relationship with the people they interact with becomes their new life. Good interpersonal relationships are not only an important indicator of college students' mental health and social adaptability, but also the cornerstone of their future career development and life happiness. Therefore, here are some small suggestions for handling interpersonal relationships based on our personal experience as college students.
Wise Saying
The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people.
——Theodore Roosevelt
With malice towards none, with charity for all.
——Abraham Lincoln
Judge not, that you be not judged.
——Abraham Lincoln
I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody.
——Benjamin Franklin
A great man shows his greatness by the way he treats little man.
——Thomas Carlyle
To know all is to forgive all.
Getting along with others is the essence of getting ahead, success being linked with cooperation.
Kind words warm up even in winter while harsh words chill down even in summer.
Do as you would be done by.
Why
1. Some College students have problems in establishing and maintaining peer relationship.
Jealousy and competition
Lack of mutual understanding
Communication barriers
Communication barriers
Lack of self—awareness
2.Bad peer relationships can have a negative impact on college students.
So
Therefore, college students need to actively address these problems in their peer relationships, establish good communication and trust with their peers, enhance their self-awareness and social skills, and seek help and support when necessary.
This can help them build healthy peer relationships that promote their growth and development. College students should take their peer relationships seriously, actively cultivate good peer relationships, avoid the negative impact of bad peer relationships on their growth and development.
In addition, if encountering bad peer relationships, they should take prompt action to address the issues and prevent the situation from worsening.