Sam got a toy from Judy yesterday, he liked very much. But something happened, the toy is broken. He covered his eyes and cried loudly. I could see his sadness from his heart, which reminded me of myself, I was in a panic when i saw a deep scar on his forehead..
I comforted him and told him, "Mommy understand what you are feeling, you are very sad, i can see. Do you still remember the broken lid. I felt sad too when I saw it. We lost the thing we like, this is too horrible to believe it. We need to learn to accept it. what you need is time, it can cure you. You will get better not very long.
Sam was better not a while, but he stil wants to buy a new toy.