

生长在中国大地上的我们,对于不打不成才,优秀的孩子是打出来的这些话大都是听过好多次了,很多人也被打成优秀的孩子。此种被家长们奉为真理的严厉教育,虽然是父母想给自己的孩子打造出完美人生宫殿,但到头来却只能制造出一件精神牢笼,陷儿童于自卑、暴躁、残忍和冷漠中,给孩子造成经久不愈的内伤


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孩子偷钱要怎么教育?
我们的孩子遇到这种情况会如何解决?
家长朋友们就这个问题激烈的讨论中……






家长发现孩子偷偷拿钱,不要假装不知道,在钱的使用上和孩子达成共识。作为父母要学会试着从孩子的角度去了解孩子的想法,对孩子有一个正确的帮助和引导


看看我们班家长对这个事情的看法吧










当众责骂也是不行的。孩子正处在青春期这个年龄段,他们的敏感、自尊心强,还很在意别人的看法,如果在大庭广众之下被人指出来盗窃,他们很可能会在周围人的指指点点中破罐子破摔,干脆彻底放弃自我,堕落成一个真正的小偷。所以,在对待孩子偷情的问题上,不管是家长还是老师都一定要慎重,因为这种事虽然是孩子做错了,但如果你的处理方法不正确,很可能会毁掉孩子的未来




总的来说,偷钱是一个比较严重的问题,需要家长耐心教育,引导孩子修正错误。通过以上的方法,可以帮助孩子认识到自己行为的不当之处,并找到更好的解决方法方案,避免类似事件的再次发生




我们都是第一次当父母!也都是在教育的路上不断摸索和学习,童年时期的逆境,包括不良的家庭教育方式,可能会对孩子的一生产生深远的影响,包括心理健康问题、生理健康问题,甚至可能影响孩子的生理机能,




综上所述,父母的行为和教育方式对孩子的影响是深远的。家长应该树立正确的三观,合理引导和教育孩子,避免过度保护或严厉惩罚,为孩子创造一个健康、和谐的成长环境。同时,家长也应该意识到自己的行为对孩子可能产生的长期影响,努力成为孩子的良师益友,而不是误伤孩子一生的“剪刀手”。



